Julie Hines

We Can Only Help Others as Far as We've Helped Ourselves By Julie Hines There’s a saying that goes, " You can't pour from an empty cup . "But in the world of healing, coaching, and even just being a supportive friend or family member, there’s another layer: You can only guide people as far as you’ve gone yourself. That’s not meant to be discouraging—it’s a reminder of the power and importance of inner work. Why It's So Important to Do Your Own Inner Healing Whether it’s childhood trauma, relationship wounds, abandonment, rejection, or unresolved emotional pain— these unhealed parts of us quietly shape how we show up in the world. They influence how we speak, how we connect, how we react, and how we help others. If we haven't looked at our own pain with honesty and compassion, we’re likely to: - Project our wounds onto others   - Give advice from a place of fear rather than truth   - Avoid deeper conversations because they mirror our own suppressed pain   - ...

"So Afraid of Dying, We Forget to Live" Isn’t it strange how so many people are afraid of dying… yet they’re not really living? It’s a bit of a contradiction. The fear of death is really about the fear of not living . And yet, that fear often holds us back from doing exactly what we’re here to do— live . We get stuck in routines, worry about the future, and put off things that bring us joy. We play it safe, thinking we’re protecting ourselves. But what we’re really doing is missing out. Day by day, we slowly lose the spark of being truly alive. And for what? If we're constantly thinking about death, we’re not actually living. It's a pointless anxiety, because the one thing we all know for sure is that life will eventually end. The real question is: What are we doing with the time we’ve got? So how do we turn it around? Feel the fear, but don’t let it control you. It’s okay to be afraid sometimes. Just don’t let it stop you from living. Say yes more. Say yes to ...